Circle Connections From: Suzanne Jones
Date: Saturday, February 12, 2011
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COMPASSIONATE COMMUNICATION


Thank you, Ann for making these actions possible. A wonderful tool for nonviolent communication and action is the communication model developed by Marshall Rosenberg. It is formally called Nonviolent Communication (NVC), but is often lovingly called Compassionate Communication. Nonviolent Communication is a communication model that is profoundly effective at keeping communicators in compassionate dialogue even in the most difficult circumstances by first creating connection, which usually leads to a mutual understanding of the feelings and needs of ourselves and others. Rather than attacking or defending positions, or each other, NVC supports us in finding ways that we can contribute to meeting the needs of all involved. NVC inspires connection and cooperation, helps transform habitual communication patterns that lead to disharmony, and offers positive, compassionate alternatives to giving in, withdrawing and counterattacking. NVC also strengthens our ability to make clear, non-interpretive observations when others’ words or actions conflict with our values so that we can then request the cooperation we need without demanding or commanding. It helps us to understand and respect the feelings and needs underlying the communications that we receive from others, even when we do not like the form of the message. I've been so impressed with NVC over the last 17 years that I have committed my life to making people aware of it.

The website where you can learn more about it is www.cnvc.org. Also, I will send, by e-mail, a copy of my thesis discussing the use of NVC in schools to create an environment where children can learn how to be compassionate global partners, if anyone is interested. Contact me at juliansuzanne2002@yahoo.com. Namaste.